Just got back from my first ever road trip with friends. Before I’d gone on drives with my family from Massachusetts to Florida and back and those were great times, but it is just a different kind of road trip. This time I was with two other guys that teach here in Milan who I’ve made friends with and spent lots of time with in the past few months. Before setting off, we picked up supplies- a car phone charger, an AUX cord to connect iPods, a paper map just in case, and snacks- granola bars, cookies, apples, pretzels, cheese balls, Pringles, etc. etc. When we got to the car rental place we got the sad surprise that we weren’t getting a Fiat 500 because those all get chosen earlier on in the day. Kind of like a first come first serve deal. We ended up getting probably the most uncool car they had in the lot- a Toyota Aygo. Yes- I GO. This is what happens on friend road trips. Surprises. Because we can’t plan as well as our parents yet and because we like taking chances. Things go wrong and you end up laughing about it later. Mind you, before leaving we hadn’t booked any places to stay or anything like that so this was going to be very much improvised. Had an awesome time in the end.
Day 1: Monaco, Montecarlo, and Nice
Driving out of Milan and down to the coast wasn’t too eventful but we were all thrilled to be getting out of the city and heading towards the sea. One of the things I miss about Lynn and Massachusetts in general is the proximity to the ocean. I just find it comforting and I’m not the only one! Our first stop was Monaco, which- for those who don’t know or for those who have forgotten like I had- is one of those countries the size of a city, like Vatican City. Montecarlo is it’s most well-known city I believe and we decided to park the car and spend a couple hours watching the elite frolic in luxury. I can tell you that I have never seen so many damn Ferraris in my life. I couldn’t stop staring. Lots of red ones too, which I think are the sexiest ones. My goal is to drive one some day. In Italy, there is at least one place where people go, pay, and drive them around for an hour at a time. Bucket list! Anyway, back to talking about Montecarlo. The town is down by the ocean and if you look up you’re just surrounded by mountains. The town itself is made up of winding streets that go up, up, up and are filled with itty bitty shops where you could blow your life savings in no time. One of the hotels way up on the mountain runs a paragliding business so the view in the distance was spotted with colorful parachutes slowly floating around in the sky. Our first stop was the beach where we got to see up close the blue waters that this region is known for. The weather was ideal that day.
After leaving Montecarlo, we went straight to Nice. The traffic was heavy so we ended up getting there around dinnertime hungry like the wolf. Although we hadn’t booked a place we had searched hostels a bit and stopped at one we had liked the looks of online. Hotel Baccarat. In the end we stayed there for the next two nights and had a great stay. After throwing our backpacks in the room- taking valuables with us of course- we headed out on the prowl to find a restaurant. We ended up paying out the wazoo for a place that had a appetizer- main course- dessert deal for 30 euros, promising ourselves that we would eat on the cheap for the rest of the trip. The food ended up being to die for and completely worth it. Fun fact: Yes, in America we use the word entrèe for the main course but in France they actually use it to refer to the appetizer. Doesn’t seem easy to mess up, but we managed it! Speaking of languages, I never studied French and apart from bonjour, bonsoir, merci, and au revoir, I just stuck to English. My friends spoke French so the people would speak to them in French and when I spoke in English just took my lead. I don’t particularly like doing this, especially now that I know how great it is to learn a country’s language and feel completely at ease communicating with people in it, but what can you do.
Day 2: Nice
The weather on this day was kind of chilly and cloudy but we didn’t let that stop us. The girl at our hostel told us that pretty much everything to see in Nice is in Old Town, which is the neighborhood by the beach. After sleeping late, we popped out of the hostel around lunchtime and grabbed some sandwiches before starting the day. Nice is smaller than I expected actually and we only needed to walk about fifteen minutes down the street to get to where we needed to be. The main square was very pretty. I felt like the pace is all the cities and towns we saw was very slow. People go to the south of France to relax and enjoy themselves and that was what you could see all around. In the center of Milan you cannot walk across Piazza Duomo without getting stopped multiple times by very insistent street vendors selling you bracelets, lighters, and trinkets. In Nice, no one stops you. The place where we spent the majority of our day was Castle Hill, whose name is self-explanatory. We took the stairs up- although there is an elevator both for those who actually need it and for sissies- and along the way are multiple vantage points that make it possible to observe the beauty of the city at all angles. At the top of the hill, besides the castle there is a really impressive waterfall which I really liked. It was a popular spot for taking pictures and at one point, a girl came up to ask me for one. The best part was that she led off with, “Do you speak German?” I like that people aren’t always sure about where I’m from. It is nice to have at least a tiny bit of anonymity. After coming down from the hill, we took a short walk along the Promenade and then stopped by a boulangerie or bakery to grab a pain au chocolat- side note: in this case, we got it as a snack, but this was also my breakfast pastry of choice throughout the trip- and a chocolate eclair. Eclairs really are God’s gift to people with a sweet tooth. The coolness of the filling is just so refreshing on a spring day like that. Finally, we headed off to the grocery store to get wine, baguettes, cheese, and meat for a very French and very cheap dinner. My friend asked the man at the deli for a diverse selection of French cheese and each one had it’s own particular consistency and flavor. One was brie of course so very soft and a bit stinky. Another had some spice to it. I’m getting hungry...
Day 3: Cassis and Les Calanques
The most gorgeous weather of the trip. After spending the entire day in one place the day before, we were ready to hop in the car and hit the open road. We drove a couple hours east and stopped in a town called Cassis which is near the better known town of Marseilles. I absolutely loved Cassis. Right on the water with colorful boats bobbing around and colorful houses and storefronts to match. People usually stop here so that they can hike up to Les Calanques which I’ll put up pictures of later on. If you have time, stop for a second and Google them because they are breathtaking. Basically they’re cliffs by the sea and the water surrounding them if possible seems even bluer than in the others places we saw throughout the trip. This was essentially a day filled with natural beauty more than anything. Halfway through the hike we saw that there were some huge rocks by the water than people were napping and relaxing on. One of my friends used to do rock climbing so he coaxed me and my other hesitant friend into climbing down to a more private area of the rocks where we could finish off our wine and cheese without anyone else around. If he sees this post, he’ll laugh if I make too big of a deal about our climb down. It’s not liked we strapped on ropes and harnesses. It was just a rockface a couple feet taller than us, tall enough that we couldn’t just jump down. He needed to give us a bit of advice on where to place our feet and hands so that we didn’t slip. I was proud of myself because without some convincing I would never have tried that. We stayed there for quite a while, just soaking in the sun, the sights, and the complete relaxation. Afterwards, we reached the top of the cliff we’d been hiking up and got a last look at everything before heading down again. My buddies are seafood lovers and that was more or less all there was in this town so that’s what we got for dinner. I don’t completely hate seafood- shrimp and certain types of fish are fine- but there is a fine line and I’m very strange about what I’m okay with or not. To my left I could see a bunch of fish on ice in the window because the place we went to doubled a poissonnerie or fish shop. I love that word because- given my pickiness about seafood- it makes me laugh that the word looks like ‘poison’. My friends each got a bucket of mussels and I ordered a filet of mackerel, thinking I was ordering something I could handle. However, it ended up showing up on a plate with head and tail attached so I just had to keep calm and carry on. That night, we weren’t so lucky when it came to lodging because this town was too small for hostels and when we followed the GPS to the one place we found online it led us to a dark residential area that seemed to lack all forms of life and could possibly be filled with zombies so we got out of there as fast as we could.
Long story short, we drove to a rest stop and ended up sleeping in the car. Before that though, I got my first ever lesson in how to drive standard. On my first try I was able to turn on the car, put it in gear, and start moving without stalling so that was a small victory. However, I didn’t really remain that consistent over the course of the next half hour or so. I’d really like to learn and reach a level where I’m just as comfortable in a standard car as I am in an automatic one. I applaud anyone who has learned to drive this way and even more so the parents who have had to watched their kids mercilessly abusing the car during the learning process! Anyway, sleeping in the car was horrible as expected but at least we saved some money and ended up on the road earlier than we had been during the first few days of the trip.
Day 4: Saint-Paul-de-Vence
We stopped at two medieval hilltop towns on the way back, one called Saint-Paul-de-Vence in France and one called Cervo which means ‘deer’ in Italy. I loved seeing the south of France and had a great time, but I can’t tell you how much of a relief it was coming back to Italy. We ended up sitting on the steps of a church and just people-watching for a very long time in the center of town. I love being able to understand the little things, like when a kid says something cute to their parents and everyone laughs or when someone says that the beautiful weather is making them crave a gelato. I just feel comfortable here. It is like a second home and I’m happy to be back.








